20 year old virgin, sex drive kicking in

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I want to wait until marriage to have sex, but lately my sex drive is insane. Masturbation helps, but it's like I can't get enough, and I think about sex all the time....I'm in a long distance relationship with a man who I am SO attracted to, and I'm worried that I will give into temptation, even though he has promised to honor my commitment to this decision....I'm not worried he will initiate, but I'm afraid I will...I've come this far, I DON'T want to give in now....any suggestions of what I can do to blow of this tension?

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  • Jbravo505
    13 years ago | pl

    Go for a run.

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  • anabolic19
    14 years ago | pl

    well its good that you's have waited but f*ck if you dont get some soon you might close up :P

    sex is great if your with the one you love and the one you know your gonna marry then just go for it you'll love it honestly it also helps to make you both alot closer

    go forth and multiply my dear lady xD

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago | pl

    seriously just get laid

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  • BrianPomona126
    14 years ago | pl

    Just have sex already!! :)

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  • dragonwriter7
    12 years ago | pl

    If you're really set on holding out, then it's all a matter of willpower. If you find yourself getting horny, firmly tell yourself that it's not going to happen until you're married. Masturbate if you need to.

    I'm not a fan of tradition, so I say you should go for it if you really love them and the relationship is a healthy one. You've made it 20 years without sex, and I greatly respect anyone who makes it to 18. I don't see a reason to wait for marriage. Then again, I'm not Christian, and therefore do not follow Christian values and Christian "logic" (or lack thereof).

    If it happens, it happens. Don't worry yourself too much over this, hon. Just live life to the fullest.

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