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I just turned 19 a few months ago. I'm still a virgin. I really want to have sex but I have nobody to have sex with. I get very shy around guys and no boy has approached me either. Is it normal to crave sex so much even though I'm a virgin.
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(lmao all way wanted to do that)
Just save yourself for someone you really care about! If it becomes a big enough issue you should try online dating
Of course its normal... plenty of people (at least the smart ones) wait until they are married to do that. Its stupid to waste your first time on some guy that's not gunna marry you...
and of course its normal to want sex. but just masturbate until you get married. I know it sounds boring but its the best option... trust me on this one
How the fuck does saving yourself for marriage make you smart. Most people that say that are down right stupid. Also why wait so long to have sex. If youre sexually attracted and both ready just fucking do it.
I too have fell into the trap of ( waiting till marriage ) for sex I know it is morals vs hormones / sex desires, yearnings, I have and still debate if it might be ok just "to get laid" jacking off only helps so much ..I know I wack off a lot. Get your cock sucked that would / will be okay in keeping with saving oneself till marriage if that is what you wish so get blowjob ( s ).
Do not worry t=you are young, I know it can get frustrating. I am a straight 50+ man who has never has still never got any "pussy" yet.
I blame some of it on the catholic church and their teachings ( no sex until marriage,
I get so horny and my hand does not always do the job ( wanking off ) that sometimes I wonder about finding a j.o.b. jack off buddy / and maybe try letting my man meat get sucked by even a straight man to help curve my need for sex ( losing my virginity.
So do not give up find a jack off buddy , get a blowjob masterbate hopefully the day will come to get laid.
You can always just stick to sucking cocks. I hear you are very good at that!
But also remember that guys are more of a "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" and they usually can't get out the door fast enough. But if your ok with getting feelings hurt guys talking about how much of a slut they are saying you are, even if you only had sex once. Guys really like broken arms because they can never seem to Pat themselves on the back enough. I would say make SURE ITS SOMEONE YOU CAN TRUST. Not all guys are trying to post your private business on Facebook, Twitter, etc. If they do, go kick their nut sack up over their head. Guys are into notches on the head board, and women are more about the emotional connection. Play safe and use condoms if you plan on doing it.
Wow 19 years old and crying about being a Virgin. Would you rather be a 14 year old with a 5 year old kid.
Alright let me tell ya somethin. I was definitely that super insecure guy because I was a virgin at 20. Then I had sex for the first time and realized it's not a big deal whatsoever. Like at all. One day it'll randomly happen and you'll be like, wow i like this dude, we gon bang. and then you will. and then you wont care if it ever happens again in the next year. and then itll happen again and then youre good for like another 2 years. Unless you end up banging someone you love. Then it's just a game really and you both throw food at each other naked until someone passes out
I wish I could help you out baby you sound cute and nice! I'm in my mid twenties don't mind the 99 in my name it's not the year I was born it's just the year that was a part of my awesome childhood!