1. Break away from your mom's wishes and reglion. It'll add unnecessary pressure from finding a guy, to quickly getting married, to having children soon. It's just not that easy. Finding the right guy takes time and patience, if you jump into marriage too fast with the first seemly nice guy you meet, without getting to know him, he may no be the guy you thought he was.
2. Being a virgin is no big deal. Most guys don't mind and will understand; but the ones who don't or try to pressure you into sex are the ones you should avoid.
3. Just be yourself. Build your confidence. Right now, you're trying too hard to change everything about yourself, and those worries you have are probaby showing in your body language. If your want to change your style, do it gradually. Look around for items that truly catch your eye in stores you don't usually shop in, make a fun day of it; because it's not about impressing the guy, but about feeling good in what you wear.
25 year old, no boyfriend, intentional virgin
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1. Break away from your mom's wishes and reglion. It'll add unnecessary pressure from finding a guy, to quickly getting married, to having children soon. It's just not that easy. Finding the right guy takes time and patience, if you jump into marriage too fast with the first seemly nice guy you meet, without getting to know him, he may no be the guy you thought he was.
2. Being a virgin is no big deal. Most guys don't mind and will understand; but the ones who don't or try to pressure you into sex are the ones you should avoid.
3. Just be yourself. Build your confidence. Right now, you're trying too hard to change everything about yourself, and those worries you have are probaby showing in your body language. If your want to change your style, do it gradually. Look around for items that truly catch your eye in stores you don't usually shop in, make a fun day of it; because it's not about impressing the guy, but about feeling good in what you wear.