Hmm. I have a question for you. Let's say you met a girl, you become good friends and then later start dating. I will take it as a given you will not ask her before you start dating if she is a virgin because as you said, you're a shy guy. But anyway, she then tells you she has in fact had sex before. Would you then just 'NOT' want to date her anymore because of that fact? Remember, this is not something she can change for you. Doesn't that seem shallow to you?
I think the point this guy is trying to make is that he would prefer someone at his level of experience but it's not a necessity. I'd agree with him on that point since I think the same way. I wouldn't dump a girl because she's had sex before, no way. But if she was lying about her "number" then I'd see a serious issue there.
Ok, alright. I however see no real reason for a girl to lie about her sexual partners in the past. But if she did, I can understand that anyone would become vary, I mean, she lied. That's generally bad. But have you considered this: why would you want a partner with the same amount of experience? Isn't it because you're afraid of how you're going to be judged based on your performance? You think she'll laugh if something isn't perfect? Or tell everyone? It's sex, not rocket science. This is nothing personal but I think ya all should just relax and enjoy getting some :)
Ya I agree with you there, but I think my preference for people with similar dating experience to myself is in the same vein as my preference of body types. I'm a thin, not very tall guy, and a like women with a similar build as myself.
It's probably just a stupid insecurity but it's just the way I feel about the matter, hehe!
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Hmm. I have a question for you. Let's say you met a girl, you become good friends and then later start dating. I will take it as a given you will not ask her before you start dating if she is a virgin because as you said, you're a shy guy. But anyway, she then tells you she has in fact had sex before. Would you then just 'NOT' want to date her anymore because of that fact? Remember, this is not something she can change for you. Doesn't that seem shallow to you?
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I think the point this guy is trying to make is that he would prefer someone at his level of experience but it's not a necessity. I'd agree with him on that point since I think the same way. I wouldn't dump a girl because she's had sex before, no way. But if she was lying about her "number" then I'd see a serious issue there.
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Ok, alright. I however see no real reason for a girl to lie about her sexual partners in the past. But if she did, I can understand that anyone would become vary, I mean, she lied. That's generally bad. But have you considered this: why would you want a partner with the same amount of experience? Isn't it because you're afraid of how you're going to be judged based on your performance? You think she'll laugh if something isn't perfect? Or tell everyone? It's sex, not rocket science. This is nothing personal but I think ya all should just relax and enjoy getting some :)
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Ya I agree with you there, but I think my preference for people with similar dating experience to myself is in the same vein as my preference of body types. I'm a thin, not very tall guy, and a like women with a similar build as myself.
It's probably just a stupid insecurity but it's just the way I feel about the matter, hehe!