Literally, I have the same story as you, but the one relationship I had only lasted a couple of months, and I'm 19. Everything else is the same.
First of all, I hadn't even kissed a girl until I was 17 when I made out with this girl. My testosterone took the wheel and I just knew what to do out of pure intuition. She was impressed, she never would have guessed I was so inexperienced if I hadn't told her >.< *facepalm*
My friend who lost his virginity when he was 18 told me that he felt the same way. He didn't even watch porn ever, but he just had intuition about how to please a woman, and it went smoothly for him.
Point is, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. From a sexual standpoint, women aren't that hard to figure out when you're in the moment. You'll just know. But even if it is a little bumpy, who cares? Hook-ups are transient, so even if they're experienced and they're turned off by your inexperience, it doesn't matter. Women who are only concerned with how you preform sexually are not worth fussing over, because even if you were good, they still wouldn't like you for who you are. The women who don't care about your experience are the ones who matter. Let the others come and go, you'll have fun and gain experience along the way, and then you can use that experience on a woman who matters. Don't be so preoccupied with what judgement may fall upon you, you'll never get laid that way. It'll happen for both of us.
21 year old male insecure about sex?
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Literally, I have the same story as you, but the one relationship I had only lasted a couple of months, and I'm 19. Everything else is the same.
First of all, I hadn't even kissed a girl until I was 17 when I made out with this girl. My testosterone took the wheel and I just knew what to do out of pure intuition. She was impressed, she never would have guessed I was so inexperienced if I hadn't told her >.< *facepalm*
My friend who lost his virginity when he was 18 told me that he felt the same way. He didn't even watch porn ever, but he just had intuition about how to please a woman, and it went smoothly for him.
Point is, don't put the pussy on a pedestal. From a sexual standpoint, women aren't that hard to figure out when you're in the moment. You'll just know. But even if it is a little bumpy, who cares? Hook-ups are transient, so even if they're experienced and they're turned off by your inexperience, it doesn't matter. Women who are only concerned with how you preform sexually are not worth fussing over, because even if you were good, they still wouldn't like you for who you are. The women who don't care about your experience are the ones who matter. Let the others come and go, you'll have fun and gain experience along the way, and then you can use that experience on a woman who matters. Don't be so preoccupied with what judgement may fall upon you, you'll never get laid that way. It'll happen for both of us.