There is one thing you need to understand: if you're not comfortable with having sex before marriage, then it is downright stupid to do it just to "blend in" with society. Contrary to what you think, there are still men out there who are willing to wait until marriage before they have sex for the first time. You will end up with many fustrated boyfriends, but if you're not comfortable with it, you're not comfortable with it and the answer is a no-brainer: don't do it.
You're very normal for feeling this way, but don't live with regrets, take your stand. If you change your mind later on, then fair enough, but until then, don't do it.
18 Year old girl dealing with relationships and virginity
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There is one thing you need to understand: if you're not comfortable with having sex before marriage, then it is downright stupid to do it just to "blend in" with society. Contrary to what you think, there are still men out there who are willing to wait until marriage before they have sex for the first time. You will end up with many fustrated boyfriends, but if you're not comfortable with it, you're not comfortable with it and the answer is a no-brainer: don't do it.
You're very normal for feeling this way, but don't live with regrets, take your stand. If you change your mind later on, then fair enough, but until then, don't do it.