First of all, how long have you both been dating each other?
Secondly, TELL YOUR PARENTS!
To me the reason why it's squicky, is because YOU ARE FRIGGIN' 17 YEARS OLD, you shouldn't be moving in with a guy that your parents do not even know, and make such big decisions at your age.
Do you know what you want to do with your life? Are you going to go to college? How long are you going to go college for? How are you going to move on in your life? How far away are you from your family? Will he become possessive with you?
And something that's been bothering me is this line, "it's hard to explain but I feel like he thinks I will be a good girlfriend in 1 year and wants to keep me around for that time being."
You only THINK that the 27 year old man, with whom you are going to live with, will keep you around 'FOR THE TIME BEING'?! Moving in with someone isn't to be trifled with! He could lose interest in you, or you in him and then what? Where would you go then? Would you go back to your mom's? What happens if you two DO get sexually active, have a major fight, break up, and then you're preggers? What will you do then?!
I have a boyfriend, he's 20 and I'm 19. I'm not going to move in with him until I feel absolutely solid in my decision. He gets that, and thinks the same thing because that's how ADULTS make life changing decisions.
17 year old dating a 27 year old?
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First of all, how long have you both been dating each other?
Secondly, TELL YOUR PARENTS!
To me the reason why it's squicky, is because YOU ARE FRIGGIN' 17 YEARS OLD, you shouldn't be moving in with a guy that your parents do not even know, and make such big decisions at your age.
Do you know what you want to do with your life? Are you going to go to college? How long are you going to go college for? How are you going to move on in your life? How far away are you from your family? Will he become possessive with you?
And something that's been bothering me is this line, "it's hard to explain but I feel like he thinks I will be a good girlfriend in 1 year and wants to keep me around for that time being."
You only THINK that the 27 year old man, with whom you are going to live with, will keep you around 'FOR THE TIME BEING'?! Moving in with someone isn't to be trifled with! He could lose interest in you, or you in him and then what? Where would you go then? Would you go back to your mom's? What happens if you two DO get sexually active, have a major fight, break up, and then you're preggers? What will you do then?!
I have a boyfriend, he's 20 and I'm 19. I'm not going to move in with him until I feel absolutely solid in my decision. He gets that, and thinks the same thing because that's how ADULTS make life changing decisions.