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Been seeing this guy the past little while. I'm 18, he's 43. We talk, actually have a lot in common, and hang out. Usually he'll give me a sensual massage and/or we will do it when we hang out, but it's totally casual and fun, no romantic attachment. I quite like it, don't want it to stop really, but is it normal?
I'm more interested in why this older guy is with a 18 year old in the first place. How did you two meet?
I'm in my thirties and honestly the thought of being with an 18 year old is unappealing. No offense meant. Just can't imagine having much in common with an 18 year old. Plus, personally, I'd feel like a molester being with someone that young. Not trying to be a dick but I don't think it's normal.
When I was 18 I was interested in music, motorcycles, art, philosophy, science etc.. Now I'm 50 and interested in music, motorcycles, art, philosophy, science etc.. Why assume two different ages of people must have nothing in common?
I'm a bit of an old sole. I like my 70s and 80s music more than the stuff on the radio today. We're both huge geeks, super intellectual and we both love/ provide great sex. Lots for us to have in common. I think my issue is, I'm too much of an old sole for people my age.
God bless that young stuff that wants to spend time with older guys! I am 50 but feel 39, not sure how old I look to others? But seems most are surprised of my age. 18, has ALWAYS seemed too young for my preference. I have ALWAYS enjoyed the company of ladies in the age range of around the mid to late 30's! ALWAYS have, ever since I was 17! I still do today! However, there have been a few in their 20's that have been catching my eye more frequently, but honestly dont think I would find much to have in common except maybe wanting to fuck! (as if that is ok and if it was all good)😄
i'm the same way! i feel like my interests and preferences are beyond that of at least most of my age group, hence why i can't get very interested in most that i meet. i yearn for a more mature guy :/ i'm jealous, lol. have fun!
A good casual, no attachments sex partner is actually rarer than it might seem. Enjoy yourself.
He will be gone when he finds a better 18 year old. Learn all you can about sex from him. Learn to be passionately dirty; learn to have a warm touch; watch internet videos on how to give great oral sex and practice on him. Soon you may have to use an 18 year old guy to satisfy your needs. You will have to be the teacher. When you tame your young stallion, your vast and lurid sexual knowledge will help you.