Not for economical reasons and things like that, but... why do you want to lose your time, money and pacience with it? Just because having a baby is cute?...
(I particularly don't find it cute, I don't like to have to teach people and don't like to be atached to someone that you can possibly start to hate)
(also, if you go search about me you can find I've said I hate almost everyone, but don't judge my opinion from that, I have reasons to hate)
I don't want to get your dreams distroied or something, or getting somewhen regreted for not have had a kid earlier.
I think there are a lot of preconcepts about this subject. You know... everyone (almost) have a family, or had (the ones that haven't had kids did not passed the reasons why through generations). Everyone think of it as "the normal thing". And so it would be a normal stage of your life to have one too, "everyone" has.
(And so about heterosexuality (everyone comes from a father and a mother, that's what is normal))
But I encourage everyone to not think normal ^^
Get rid of these ideas, and think, in your "new world" if it is what you want to do.
If you don't feel prepared at that age (it's not that late, but oh well) maybe yo don't want it that much. Think really deeply about why it is, maybe it is not about your maturity.
I'm sorry for any mistake, this is not my first language.
28 Too Young For Kids?
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I don't think I'd ever want a kid :P
Not for economical reasons and things like that, but... why do you want to lose your time, money and pacience with it? Just because having a baby is cute?...
(I particularly don't find it cute, I don't like to have to teach people and don't like to be atached to someone that you can possibly start to hate)
(also, if you go search about me you can find I've said I hate almost everyone, but don't judge my opinion from that, I have reasons to hate)
I don't want to get your dreams distroied or something, or getting somewhen regreted for not have had a kid earlier.
I think there are a lot of preconcepts about this subject. You know... everyone (almost) have a family, or had (the ones that haven't had kids did not passed the reasons why through generations). Everyone think of it as "the normal thing". And so it would be a normal stage of your life to have one too, "everyone" has.
(And so about heterosexuality (everyone comes from a father and a mother, that's what is normal))
But I encourage everyone to not think normal ^^
Get rid of these ideas, and think, in your "new world" if it is what you want to do.
If you don't feel prepared at that age (it's not that late, but oh well) maybe yo don't want it that much. Think really deeply about why it is, maybe it is not about your maturity.
I'm sorry for any mistake, this is not my first language.
And I'm a girl not wanting to have kids.