I think having all those partners is normal, but having so many children as a result of those fleeting relationships isn't normal and neither is neglecting them.
You should confront her. In all likelihood she knows there is a problem already but isn't mentally prepared to face it. If you confront her, frame it as a concern that her family will keep expanding and get out of her control. It's okay for her to keep having sex with a lot of men; I don't think that hurts anyone, including the kids. The issue is that she doesn't have sex responsibly and puts her sexual relationships above her children.
You're right. Sex is natural and normal. If she wanted to have sex with every man she met NO I wouldn't like it because TO ME its not right but its HER business. I come in where she puts her kids off on ME or OTHERS to go have sex or spend time with a guy when really she doesnt put that much effort into being a mother to her children. Not understanding the her children are the result from the act. Ive brought it up to her but I didnt really break it down, I hinted around it but obviously she didnt catch my drift. Sometimes I feel like she's just looking for love and acceptance not realizing YOU HAVE THAT IN YOUR CHILDREN. I understand where youre coming from though. Thanks.
She puts the responsibility off on everyone and everyone feels obligated because they feel sorry for her children. Sometimes I do but sometimes I'm like fuck it.
I understand, and I know you guys do it for the kids so your hearts are in the right place, but it is enabling her to keep living for herself instead of her kids. And yes, I have seen more dr. Phil than I care to admit
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I think having all those partners is normal, but having so many children as a result of those fleeting relationships isn't normal and neither is neglecting them.
You should confront her. In all likelihood she knows there is a problem already but isn't mentally prepared to face it. If you confront her, frame it as a concern that her family will keep expanding and get out of her control. It's okay for her to keep having sex with a lot of men; I don't think that hurts anyone, including the kids. The issue is that she doesn't have sex responsibly and puts her sexual relationships above her children.
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You're right. Sex is natural and normal. If she wanted to have sex with every man she met NO I wouldn't like it because TO ME its not right but its HER business. I come in where she puts her kids off on ME or OTHERS to go have sex or spend time with a guy when really she doesnt put that much effort into being a mother to her children. Not understanding the her children are the result from the act. Ive brought it up to her but I didnt really break it down, I hinted around it but obviously she didnt catch my drift. Sometimes I feel like she's just looking for love and acceptance not realizing YOU HAVE THAT IN YOUR CHILDREN. I understand where youre coming from though. Thanks.
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I'd stop watching the kids then. Her responsibility, not yours.
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She puts the responsibility off on everyone and everyone feels obligated because they feel sorry for her children. Sometimes I do but sometimes I'm like fuck it.
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I understand, and I know you guys do it for the kids so your hearts are in the right place, but it is enabling her to keep living for herself instead of her kids. And yes, I have seen more dr. Phil than I care to admit