20+ sex partners..

I have a family member that is VERY promiscuous. She has SEX with EVERYONE she meets and is attracted to (within less that a week). Shes of age, she has 4 children and 3 of them are girls. I dont approve of her behaviour because I dont think it's appropriate when you have daughters, children period. I understand she's an adult and she can make her own decisions but sometimes I dont think she understands the severity of her actions. Sometimes it angers me, other times it just upsets me for the children because they're put 2nd to every dude in their mothers life. I've thought about confronting her but then again its not my sex life. I want her to change for the better but I fear if I confront her I might be a little too rude..what would be my best option?

Tell Her How You Feel. RAW & UNCUT 38
Let It Go.. 23
Tell Her How You Feel. (Be Considerate Of Her Feelings) 52
Leave Her Alone & Say Nothing.. 31
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  • VirgilManly

    I have a feeling you can expect more nieces & nephews in the future and all with different daddies.

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    • daisydukes

      You must be psychic. Lol but I agree..

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  • (.)(.)boobies

    You can say whatever you want to her but she probably won't listen. Talking to her could ease your own conscious but, if you do, try to approach her in a way that's non-judgemental of her lifestyle.

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  • dom180

    I think having all those partners is normal, but having so many children as a result of those fleeting relationships isn't normal and neither is neglecting them.

    You should confront her. In all likelihood she knows there is a problem already but isn't mentally prepared to face it. If you confront her, frame it as a concern that her family will keep expanding and get out of her control. It's okay for her to keep having sex with a lot of men; I don't think that hurts anyone, including the kids. The issue is that she doesn't have sex responsibly and puts her sexual relationships above her children.

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    • daisydukes

      You're right. Sex is natural and normal. If she wanted to have sex with every man she met NO I wouldn't like it because TO ME its not right but its HER business. I come in where she puts her kids off on ME or OTHERS to go have sex or spend time with a guy when really she doesnt put that much effort into being a mother to her children. Not understanding the her children are the result from the act. Ive brought it up to her but I didnt really break it down, I hinted around it but obviously she didnt catch my drift. Sometimes I feel like she's just looking for love and acceptance not realizing YOU HAVE THAT IN YOUR CHILDREN. I understand where youre coming from though. Thanks.

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      • Gspyder

        I'd stop watching the kids then. Her responsibility, not yours.

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        • daisydukes

          She puts the responsibility off on everyone and everyone feels obligated because they feel sorry for her children. Sometimes I do but sometimes I'm like fuck it.

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          • Gspyder

            I understand, and I know you guys do it for the kids so your hearts are in the right place, but it is enabling her to keep living for herself instead of her kids. And yes, I have seen more dr. Phil than I care to admit

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  • RoseIsabella

    How old is she?

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    • daisydukes

      :/ 22.

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      • RoseIsabella

        She seriously needs to slow down. I feel sorry for her kids. What a selfish mother she is!

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        • daisydukes

          I agree and thats what pisses me off about it. If it wasnt for me alot of people would've called child protective services on her ass along time ago.

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        • Tommythecat.

          Yeah It's like she's dreamin' about Gorgonzola cheese when it's clearly Brie time baby.

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          • RoseIsabella

            There you are! I've missed you so. Welcome back!
            :-D
            *starts a Siamese soliloquy*
            Meow meow meows! Purrrs...

            *note: purrs are inspired by an actual Siamese cat's purrs and head butts*
            ;-)

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  • 20+ isn't that bad. I know people who were over 300 years ago and are probably way higher than that by now.

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    • daisydukes

      Do they all have young children that look up to them? If she wasnt a mom a young mom at that I swear I wouldn't care AT ALL!!

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      • Why would their kids look up to them?

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  • alextsang08

    I hope she gets a STD and dies.

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    • daisydukes

      Lowkey I think she's had an STD and just didnt tell us when she was pregnant.

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      • alextsang08

        Reminds me of a chicken for some weird reason. An "egg carrier"...

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        • daisydukes

          Lmao..shame.

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  • CreativeThinker

    By reading your replies I conclude you are a rude guy .... therefore I would say
    Who the hell are you to object on anyone's sexual lifestyle or desires??? her children probably have 200+ sex partners who knows ....... you just shut the fuck up ... you shove your jealous fucking thoughts up your ass you asshole .... and learn some etiquette ..Moron

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  • poon_jabber

    can she deep throat?

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  • Mavis130

    You sucked 37 dicks?!

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  • Apple_guy

    let me know her next location so i too can hook up with her 8)

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  • Gspyder

    Sounds like a good dr. Phil episode

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    • daisydukes

      Lol thats embarrassing, glad its anonymous. I wouldn't DARE go on tv and let her make a fool out of me. Dr . Phil would definitely chew her out.

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  • Anonnet

    I would say talk to her, especially if she has kids that would have to live through this. Whether she listens or not, she has to hear it from somebody.

    I think the mother having a lot of different sex partners will hurt the children, from not having a stable father and being exposed to the kinds of people that would have casual sex with a girl that has four kids.

    I voted "RAW & UNCUT", but you know her better than we do.

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    • daisydukes

      That was MY CHOICE but my fiancé told me think it out. Im not much of a thinker I go with my 1st mind and thats usually to just SNAP. CRACKLE & POP but I do care about her feelings to a certain extent. So I was a little torn.

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  • Johnnytherat

    dont tell her to stop.. wtf i'm next in line!

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    • Lmao she'd probably let you.

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  • davesumba

    Let it go you prude. 20 is nothing. Most promiscuous girls have 20 before even leaving high school.

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    • daisydukes

      You idiot I said 20 PLUS!!! I could give a flying fuck how many she has. I'm thinking about the kids well being not her ran over PUSSY & I'm not talking about MOST promiscuous girls I'm talking about MY FAMILY MEMBER. So shove your comment up YOUR ass PRUDE!

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      • davesumba

        Because a person's sex life affects their kids.... #GirlLogic

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