I have social anxiety and depression....belive me I know how you feel..i have very few friends...never had a real girlfriend and am alone most of the time...some thoughts..
Most people are fucked up in some way...even those smiling happy people have problems...many of them major problems....social life also makes demands...every person in your life makes demands on your time, energy, resources...people who have active social and sex lives have to pay the price for that ...jealousy, rivalry, arguments, time...a lot of the good of social life is counter balanced by the bad...trust me you might wish you were single and alone again....so you may have an idealistic vision of that...even happy loving couples are bored much of the time...
however i do believe in the emd social life is worth the trouble and the fact that you are frustrated is a good thing..because you still want it...half the battle of anything is wanting it...because you will still work at it...so keep hitting on women because you are actually learning skills that will help you get them...even when you get rejected you learn something...like what does not work...be easy on yourself...every dog gets lucky sometimes...
33 old, no friends, never had a girlfriend #PLEASE DONT READ,PATHETIC#
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I have social anxiety and depression....belive me I know how you feel..i have very few friends...never had a real girlfriend and am alone most of the time...some thoughts..
Most people are fucked up in some way...even those smiling happy people have problems...many of them major problems....social life also makes demands...every person in your life makes demands on your time, energy, resources...people who have active social and sex lives have to pay the price for that ...jealousy, rivalry, arguments, time...a lot of the good of social life is counter balanced by the bad...trust me you might wish you were single and alone again....so you may have an idealistic vision of that...even happy loving couples are bored much of the time...
however i do believe in the emd social life is worth the trouble and the fact that you are frustrated is a good thing..because you still want it...half the battle of anything is wanting it...because you will still work at it...so keep hitting on women because you are actually learning skills that will help you get them...even when you get rejected you learn something...like what does not work...be easy on yourself...every dog gets lucky sometimes...
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Couldnt agree more