I suggest that you get involved in a community center or do something else and you will make some friends-or you can volunteer, anything that gets you involved with people.
Use humor and courtesy to get people interested in you. If you come across as being needy or desperate you will just scare people away. No one wants to deal with other people's problems and loneliness.
Also don't even think about a girlfriend until you have a job, unless you find one in a similar situation. But you have to sort your life out first. Once your working many other things will fall into place-plus as least you can pay your way when dating.
You're not alone in your situation-others have gone through similar things, but keep your head together. Focus on the goals you want to obtain and work towards, whatever they are. But a job is the most important thing you need right now-being on social assistance is a terrible place to be. Yes it's paying your bills, but there's no dignity in it-you need to earn a paycheck, good luck.
33 old, no friends, never had a girlfriend #PLEASE DONT READ,PATHETIC#
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I suggest that you get involved in a community center or do something else and you will make some friends-or you can volunteer, anything that gets you involved with people.
Use humor and courtesy to get people interested in you. If you come across as being needy or desperate you will just scare people away. No one wants to deal with other people's problems and loneliness.
Also don't even think about a girlfriend until you have a job, unless you find one in a similar situation. But you have to sort your life out first. Once your working many other things will fall into place-plus as least you can pay your way when dating.
You're not alone in your situation-others have gone through similar things, but keep your head together. Focus on the goals you want to obtain and work towards, whatever they are. But a job is the most important thing you need right now-being on social assistance is a terrible place to be. Yes it's paying your bills, but there's no dignity in it-you need to earn a paycheck, good luck.