33 old, no friends, never had a girlfriend #PLEASE DONT READ,PATHETIC#

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  • shade_ilmaendu
    10 years ago | pl

    For one, you need to stop all the negative self talk, because that's only going to keep you trapped in this cycle you've found yourself in.

    Perception does not just effect your mood, but your outcomes as well. It's the Law of Attraction... we attract what we project. If you go into situations already projecting these negatives vibes, that you're "weird" or "socially inept" or whatever else you project onto yourself... you're already setting yourself up to behave that way. Beliefs are only thoughts that you gave enough attention to for them to grow. You change the beliefs by identifying and changing these thought patterns.

    Actually, let me just link you to an article about this... it's a bit long but it's definitely worth the read. :)

    http://www.wellbeingalignment.com/how-to-love-yourself.html

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    • Tarantulo
      10 years ago | pl

      Thank you, I will read it all through and your points are really straight, but I find that its more easier said then done especially if youve stuck in this state for ages.

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