20 male never dated (should i)

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Is it normal that im 20(male) virgin and have never dated or even been asked out, never asked as girl out, i have had crushes but never tryed , was either to nervous or shy or unsure. diddnt know how to or what to do por how to act on a date and id h8 to be that reallly bad dayte i know i would be. but im
not sure if i should ask a girl out, i mean dating not really that interesting to me, and people always say it will be eventually and i dont want to be 30 or 40 when it happens. the thought is bothering me and i feel pathetic , for posting this to. any advice, what should i do, (if ur gonna mock me dont bother commenting), girls your thoughts are prefered

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Comments ( 13 )
  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Forget dating and take courses to learn how to spell and use correct grammar. What a loser you sound like!

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    Its up to you. Do not feel forced into it by pressure. Its your life do what makes you happy. long as you follow laws and do not hurt anyone. Have fun and a wonderful life.

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  • kinda
    11 years ago

    i think you should try you don't have to be 100% sure about the future with the girl But you have to be 100% sure you love her... if it works or not it will be good to try .. It will be distinctive experience in life I definitely think you should start dating some time soon

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  • stalkinurmom
    11 years ago

    Alright,dude.If ur 20 and have never dated,its not that big. Of a deal.but,you gotta start sometime! You say you have never been asked out,before? That's normal.most girls don't like to ask out guys,but maybe make sure you stay fresh.watch some romantic movies,maybe that will start a spark.

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  • bananawhat
    11 years ago

    This sounds like me. I'm sure I won't have a bf either till I'm your age.

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  • rclay1992
    11 years ago

    there is no such thing as love. there is sex and loosing your money. I am in the same spot as you it is something you have to live with the rest of your life just like a lot of other people.

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  • lamby
    13 years ago

    All of you guys. VERY normal, do not worry you are still young. Just work on developing self confidence.

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  • michael1187
    13 years ago

    I know how you feel... same thing here only I'm 26.

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  • OM3GA
    13 years ago

    I'm in the same situation, unfortunately...

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  • aussiewolf
    13 years ago

    altezze probably meant that it would be easier with someone who knows you are a virgin.

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  • 023587805702
    13 years ago

    i'm like you (but 19) and i just found out i have severe social phobia maybe you have something similar? just think are you more they shy? if so see your doc and go from there

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  • Altezza99
    13 years ago

    I definitely think you should start dating some time soon. It's not all as scary as u might think!! Find a girl u are comfortable with(i.e a girl you know) and go from there!! There's a lot of firsts you need to experience! And it's so much easier with someone who knows your sexual experiences!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      what do u mean by sexual experiences! cuz i have none as i stated above

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