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Well im 18 and im with a 30 year old (who has 3 kids but dont live with him)because i dont like guys my age i feel like they're stupid and immature and i just dont feel comfortable around them plus i really like him and ima move in with him pretty soon but people say i may f*** up my life...dang what should i do?
dont listen to people ... do what you like, 12 years is actually a very normal age gap between many men and woman ... im also attracted to older guys , they have a heck of alot more to offer in every way and they are 10 times more intresting
What she said lol except you should think about if you want to have to deal with someone elses kids in your life at your age. Not to mention baby momma drama. ha ha Cause even if he dont have them I'm pretty sure he's still envolved in their lives and you will have to be too. And except them. Just something to think about.
I understand you wanting someone older but you seriously have to question the maturity level of a 30 year old wanting to date someone who is 18.
i wouldnt go out with anyone who has baggage. you need to think about whether you want kids later on because chances are, he doesnt because he already has 3. think about this seriously before making the commitment. the age difference doesnt really mean much if you have a bit of life experience. my husband is 10 years older than me but we have both had our fun and we were ready at the same time to settle down when we found each other. i would listen to those people telling you not to move in with this guy. how long have you been with this guy? since you are only 18, i wouldnt think for very long. your still a teenager so go out and have fun before you settle down because you will regret it a few years down the track. good luck.
u DO U n what pleases u, no one else can predict your happiness. If u make a mistake, then you'll learn from it and know how not to do it again. p.s. age doesn't determine how each individual persons personality is. Or he can be your soul-mate, someone positive in your life.
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Not everyone your age is immature, and you don't need to rush decisions. You're 18, you have plenty of time to find a guy. Don't be stupid.
"because i don't like guys my age i feel like they're stupid and immature" that is such a Clique thing to say I'm a guy 19 and all the girls my age are going out with older guys does this mean i have to go out with younger girls? i bet if you actually open your eyes and look you might find a caring mature guy your age with no kids!!! how did you even get in a relationship with this guy...... how great can this guy be if his wife (I presume) left him!!!! here's a idea go travelling meet new people your age. do you want kids, can you imaging this guy wanting more kids and if he does you then have to get along with his other kid. please don't do anything stupid with this guy.
follow your heart but use your head. at your age i would wait abit cuz at that age i was still thinking some crazy shit where now i look back and think "what the hell was i thinking"... i think in the meantime, just keep dating and get close.
Does he make laugh?
Do you good when your with him?
Is sex great?
If one of the 3 is missing re evaluate.
If all is there I would say you have a good thing going. Ride the wave till it fades away.
First why, why, why, so what guys your age are immature don't date go to school get an education that gives you a career to care for yourself. You are not texting in this format so stop speaking in text which makes YOU IMMATURE. Any young woman with her future in front of her that chooses a man older than 10 years and 3 kids (I hope by the same woman if not OMG) you have low self esteem and need an immediate intervention, this is not a path of success you will fail and hurt and small children will be left in the wake of all adults involved. There is a big difference between being lonely and being alone, join a yoga class if your lonely, other wise register for college classes if your alone and be productive and proactive in your life. He and his baby mama('s) will be fine and so will the kids, you have a life to begin. GOOD LUCK