It is normal enough but I have little sympathy. Anyway what's wrong with gardening? And if you read you may actually learn something and broaden your horizons or be entertained very well.
It would help me to be more empathetic if you were more honest about your motives. I don't mean that I think you are a complete liar but you could do with thinking this through more carefully. If I analyse what you say correctly then you are heading for trouble. The way you don't talk about your wife and kids worries me a bit. I don't think I like you much, but I may just be tired and a bit sour. You could just be a nice guy with a limited imagination or perhaps you're bone idle? Oh, I don't know because I'm not perfect either. I'll go to bed and mull it over a bit. I hope you will sleep well when bedtime comes and wake up feeling better and with some new ideas. If you say a bit more about what you are like, people could think about it and may well help.
i thank you for your comments but please re read what i wrote. i am looking for hobbies to fill 5 hours of my day. i am an active father .. coach .. tutor.. etc for my kids for the other 19 hours of the day (outside of sleeping). I placed this question not to be judged if you like me or not.
We are all different .. i have no interest in gardening. I have a college degree and a professional designation and participate in many sports. but i am looking for more .. and gardening will make my list when i am 70. .. not at 45 and very active.
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It is normal enough but I have little sympathy. Anyway what's wrong with gardening? And if you read you may actually learn something and broaden your horizons or be entertained very well.
It would help me to be more empathetic if you were more honest about your motives. I don't mean that I think you are a complete liar but you could do with thinking this through more carefully. If I analyse what you say correctly then you are heading for trouble. The way you don't talk about your wife and kids worries me a bit. I don't think I like you much, but I may just be tired and a bit sour. You could just be a nice guy with a limited imagination or perhaps you're bone idle? Oh, I don't know because I'm not perfect either. I'll go to bed and mull it over a bit. I hope you will sleep well when bedtime comes and wake up feeling better and with some new ideas. If you say a bit more about what you are like, people could think about it and may well help.
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i thank you for your comments but please re read what i wrote. i am looking for hobbies to fill 5 hours of my day. i am an active father .. coach .. tutor.. etc for my kids for the other 19 hours of the day (outside of sleeping). I placed this question not to be judged if you like me or not.
We are all different .. i have no interest in gardening. I have a college degree and a professional designation and participate in many sports. but i am looking for more .. and gardening will make my list when i am 70. .. not at 45 and very active.