Thanks John. As a parent too, I'm sure you wrestle with what is best. I can't say everything I did was perfect - though I have tried my best. The out of control behavior has disappeared - whethe...

Do you mean via Private Message? If so, never got it.

Thank you for your advice and for the offer but it is tough to coordinate with people on the Internet. I've posted some very personal stuff here and would feel uncomfortable meeting with anyone fr...

in this case, it does seem he was interested in the smell of the feet in the pantyhose. maybe he never realized that the feet smelled attractive to him without. i also have tried to keep my feet ...

@nahnahchow thanks for your reply. it did give me some different perspectives and calmed some of my fears a bit. first of all, i guess i never fully considered how much the environment was trigger...

Hi amazingguy, Thanks for your perspective. Not by choice, but for a month I did have a coworker babysit who let him enjoy sniffing her nylon feet all the time. I have since ended this arrangemen...

Dave167, Sorry for my delayed response - I somehow didn't get the email notification but happy to see people are still giving advice here. I definitely will take your advice - combined with the o...

Reverend, My son and I have renounced Socialism and embraced Fascism and the fetish disappeared. Thanks for your help! (Just kidding - what in the world was this? Was this humor?)

I did read it - nine months later. I truly appreciate your insights as someone who has lived through it. Ironically, when he was questioned about why he likes the smell, he said they smelled like...

Yes, I can't shape his sexuality... but I can cause it to be repressed, which makes it even worse... Or I can encourage it which will make it relaxed for him.... I think as others have noted, it i...

And all I have to do is look at your comment history at http://isitnormal.com/people/Numbertwo/ to authoritatively say: Troll Not even sure why I'm responding, but I do appreciate those who actua...

Thanks - your comments are truly appreciated. You are absolutely right and I will take your advice and chill a bit. I hear one of those echoes of my own mother in my behavior - one of those momen...

You are absolutely right - that is what came out of this and I appreciate the feedback. I am at fault for not drawing boundaries. I did tell my coworkers that I was a bit caught off guard and hav...

You might be right - I don't want to project something that isn't there. I just do believe that some of this early childhood stuff can grow into adult behaviors though if left unchecked.

Good advice - thank you. It is hard for me too to say it is a fetish - I think we're somewhat clueless on when the desires truly begin, so I can't say whether it is sexual or not yet. One thing...

Thank you for this advice! I think that is a key factor, just learning what is appropriate is one thing, but learning about people's boundaries is another. I am worried where the boundaries will ...

Each girl is a bit different - they all universally look at me first before reacting, which led me in a bit of desperation to this forum and the comments are appreciated. I usually say 'we don't d...

I like this view - maybe he is attracted and just doesn't know how to show it. You and others have commented - maybe it is best just to guide him to appropriate ways to display it. Thinking about...