Thanks, I'm genuinely considering it! We are pretty open and try a lot together...think I am over thinking. Also "jazz movies" is that a thing :p? X

Absolute fruit loop

I don't think either of us is necessarily wrong, I was just wondering if it's normal for him to be so different from me in his not wanting to try anything. And I bet you've at least tried those thi...

Erm toys, anal, I'd like to watch porn together I haven't before, things like that. We're each others first so the things I want to try I never have. I love sex and think it's kinda interesting lol...

I think it's normal and a fair piont, but I wouldn't go shouting it at the next lady who announces their pregnancy to you."I've got some news were going to be blessed with a child"..."aww congratul...

I mean I want to try things you know so yes I want to try anal and other stuff. There's nothing wrong with it apart from when it's only ever vanilla.

I mean anything other then straight up vanilla sex, nothing else at all including the above :/.

I think he feels guilty about things you know sexually. I mean I get it we were both raised religiously, but I don't judge other people and refuse to try new things. I don't feel like the things I'...

I mean the asking if theres anything he'd like to try. Not the suprise thing lol, I don't think he'd be very pleased with me if I tryed that one. Thanks for this suggestion though.

I have he's just not open to anything, no matter how I seem to approach it.

Erm I think he tries to be attentive and open, he's just a bit well closed off. He says he's just not an overly emotional person.