I don't like when people say those things, but that doesn't mean i don't like them as a person.

Right, I had a manager that would call me bud, most annoying thing ever. I hardly new the guy

Only when it's unhealthy and large quantities

People act different depending on who they are with, I know exactly what you mean. Used to have the same thing going on but I just quit seeing them

That sounds like something a girl would do, stay with a guy after he cheats but idk people go back so I guess it's normal?