my newest cat who we've had for about three months takes the hugest smelliest dumps many times every day and all types and brands of food do it and the vet can't find a single thing wrong with her ...

being a woman and also having confidence and liking yourself does not make you vain or narcissistic. please destroy this notion.

If you're going to refer to women as "females" you should probably not be talking to any of them

I'm so, so sorry that happened to you. But what is happening to you is a very common post-trauma reaction called a fear memory. It's basically anything that brings up vivid memories of a bad experi...