i'd rather have a guy with an average sized penis who can actually make me orgasim to a guy with a large member how makes me feel like a punching bag... size doesn't definatly equal a good time... ...

it's more of a mixture of the two :) if youre really interested you should look into psychological approaches towards sexuality and gender identity... fun!!! :D

it's like dead skin but on the inner check :) normal, but people tend not to notice it as usually it goes away slowly and not in big bits, but as people now with skin this isn't always the case