duckman

Even if there is a chance, do not try too hard. She'll figure it out, (shes very bright after all right?) and not feel like the relationship is organic.

Remember whatever is there when its dark is the only thing that is there before the lights went out, nothing more...

So you want to encourage her but don't really give a shit? Be real with yourself is she just a nice, child-less piece of ass? or is it something more? There is no definitive right move here, there ...