i think you should talk to them about this, and how their actions made you feel and vice versa. even if it doesn't solve it, it may hopefully give you a sense of closure. if things like this happen...

i say this very lovingly, as one of those passionate love live/other idol anime fans: anime is trash

oh i'm a massive piss baby who cries over anything, like 15 minutes ago my boyfriend said he needed to go to bed and i started crying because i missed him.