"I like you for personality, but your afro hair is not what I find attractive". Doesn't sound appealing to me. I think I'm just different, I think I'm happy with what I have, and I need someone who...

I think it's because my appearance is my identity and it makes me uncomfortable to be 'an exception'. Plus, I'm not sure how anyone could be attracted to who someone is and not be attracted to what...

I think this made me realise that, whilst a guy might not find all parts of me ideal, there are some that are more important than others. The parts that make up my identity are most important.

This is very true, well said

I think it makes sense that just because you don't prefer something doesn't mean you dislike, however I would hate for someone to consider the race-related parts of me (hair, skin) as imperfections...

Thanks for commenting, if I particular person from a race has an interest in me, I don't assume that their whole race needs to find me attractive, nor would I try to make their WHOLE race find me a...