Too many kids without kids of their own posting on this serious topic! I think you are doing a great job, you kids sound fantastic....not sure why you don't like them??? But I agree parenting is in...

I think the OP is the middle son and is asking for help Your mother does love you, a mother's love is unconditional. Maybe she just doesn't like your whining.....but she does love you.

I was about to write and tell you that I was the same - except I passed my baby over to be looked after at 8 weeks old when I went back to work - maternity leave is very short in my country. I was ...