I've only ever heard it in an insulting way to describe someone who treats their partners badly and is just there for sex.

Ask him, but only if you're willing to accept him either way. And if you find him attractive then maybe things could line up perfectly for you two.

It's something I also do! I wouldn't be able to judge whether it's 'normal' or not but as long as it helps you and isnt negatively impacting your life then it's perfectly fine.

Honestly, I understand OP, but I'm faily sure my fear stems from abuse as a kid. I try my best to try and hide it around kids just because I know it's unkind and rude to be unfriendly towards babie...

I'd say in some ways it can be a normal way of thinking, but if it gets in the way of any legitimate mental or physical health issues, then it should be discussed further - some people believe in g...

Hey, I know how you feel. Unfortunately it seems that this could be a case of paranoia and I would recommend seeing a good doctor or psychiatrist if possible. I felt like this for the longest time ...