I sound a bit mean there ^! I mean most women I know which is pretty much me, my sisters and my mom...

Thank you for your response but as I watch porn and have no plans to cheat, I'd like to assume the same of my lovely husband. Fingers crossed my assumption is right! Lol.

I think like a lot of women I tend to focus a tad inwards, from what you and Duhast have said I can see why it could be difficult for him and how it might be habit rather then a complete conscious ...

That doesn't make much sense in our situation. It really doesn't make me feel inadequate which he knows as we quite often watch together. I've told him it doesn't bother me when he watches alone as...

It would ^^, thanks for the response this has been genuinely and surprisingly helpful! :)

The porn he watches is practically soft lol. I have attempted to talk to him, he says his ex wife used to freak out about it but I'm not her! Even after that conversation he still lied hence me won...