I'm a Chinese girl and I kind of get her sentiment although I have no desire whatsoever to marry a white man. It's the whole Western supremacy thing. I guess white men appeal to her because she's b...

Oh, and by the way don't take it personally that the attraction died. Sometimes it happens when people stay together for too long and lose sight of themselves. You've got to find yourself and get y...

Try breaking off ALL contact for a while. No point being a safety net to someone who's not even sure he wants you. I'm guessing the attraction died but it's not easy to stop loving someone you've b...