Thank you for this, it was very insightful. You're perhaps right about him not knowing how to express his feelings regarding the matter. I think what I need to do about this whole situation is ju...

I did think that because of his age he's a lot more eager about it than I am. I do want kids one day and he knows this, but I don't wish to have them at 24 years old. Maybe in a couple of years but...

Yes, we are. We just didn't once and I told him to stop half way through anyway, hence why everything was all okay :)

I second that

Thanks for this Perry. It was very insightful. I think i'll take on board your advice and instead of straight up asking him if it's a joke, be more intellectual about it and go about it a better wa...

That's not good.. :| I won't let that happen

I have asked and he says it is a joke. But, i'm just not so sure. I just have a feeling it isn't

Good point. I never thought of this

That's exactly what I was worried about. I didn't know if it was a red flag or not. Perhaps it is a red flag then..

oh no :O Well, I'll be taking precautions not to be haha!

Well, that's what I'm thinking :|