That said, you can't know what you want if you don't know what you don't want.

You cannot help who you are attracted to. You can however decided when and how to act upon it. Try dating before going straight into a relationship. Finding out early on that your preconceived idea...

Whether or not it's normal is not the question you want to ask. If you want to know if he's fooling around you have 3 options: 1) Go with him, find out. 2) Confront him, find out. 3) Dump him, an...

He's not looking for penis.

This is the dumbest thing I've ever read on the internet. You don't "fall in love" with someone in the hopes that you may be able to change them one day.

That does sound judgmental. Extremely, in fact. Do you honestly believe people act they way they do in bars 100% of the time?

Think about all of the terrible decisions you would have made in life if you'd never heard "no".

The #1 reason for thinking you're a "normal" person and not understanding why you can't attract the opposite sex is: lack of self awareness. This goes to the reply to lonelyboy's post, as much as...

Given your past history, I'd be willing to bet you WOULDN'T flirt with her.