i really hate it when guys suggest that we go Dutch. I dont expect my man to spend a shitload of money on me, but i prefer that he pays on dates. I hate guys telling women they should pay or split ...

Yes, or I feel ripped off. Girls should be won. All of the guys I know pay for dates, even outings with female friends.Its nice when guys say' i want to take you out, buy you drinks' blah blah blah...