Not really. Kissing is a display of affection and emotional intimacy. Direct sexual stimulation may be intimate on a physical level, but doesn't always overlap with our need for an emotional conn...

She has put her finger in me and used toys a couple times. But her attitude otherwise suggests she might find it awkward that I want a full on pounding. And still doesn't fulfill the ejaculation ...

Yes, I have used dildos, and other objects. Recent favorites are corona bottle or a skinny hair gel can. Learning I prefer a little thicker. Love masturbating with something in my ass, but now r...