I think you are starting to face your trauma. It’s no chance that you chose a partner you otherwise would find unattractive. Definitely not saying what you should do. It’s just as you said. You are...

Absolutely normal, my friend. Them 3D moles, especially in the front of the torso, they’re the worst. Flat ones can be cute, though, like on the face. It’s so subjective, so of course it’s normal. ...