I think the fact that you recognize and embrace this about yourself gives you an edge on life in general. I applaud you!

I've never met one that I didn't want to hurt.

This guy deserves no one, he's playing both of you. Maybe the new girlfriend is "jealous and clingy" because he spends so much time talking to the "old gf". It is a very old game, don't let him get...

When you close your eyes do you also see the game screen in your head? I do.

I have cats who throw up deliberately just to annoy me. It's like they wait until I am in the room or leave a puddle of sick where I will slip and fall in it. Cats are diabolical demented creatures...

I had the same feelings with one of my kids. It is pretty normal but it sure makes for a lot of parental guilt. For me, not allowing him to come back was the lesser of two evils. I've learned to li...