Thanks (: it's hard to comprehend but I really agree with that

I didn't ask for all of you stoners' opinions as to why pot is not bad.

I'd like her to quit a habit. Not change as a person.... People don't change as a person if they quit chewing snuff... At least I didn't.

You're right! But asking (not forcing) her to stop smoking is not changing her as a person... It's getting her to quit a habit lol it's like her telling me that she doesn't like that I chew snuff.....

Because other than that, I absolutely adore her and her family. I thought if we are together for a while and there is a strong connection between us then she will sacrifice pot for a great relation...