Just because you like someone doesn't mean she does, grow the fuck up, she clearly don't want it so stop pressuring her.

My partner also gets turned on by my blood, we do safe, clean blood play, he'll fuck me when i'm on my period and get me to lick the blood up so he can makeout with ME, it's normal and safe

It's normal, you're just a sadist, and that's not necessarily a bad thing, like in BDSM, just the media makes it seem like only guys can be the doms and sadists...

We have safe words and if I can't speak we have a safe action, so he knows when to stop

Real? As in actual rape, with no consent at all, not role play?