Thanks again for your supportive words, Tealights. I find your balanced approach to this subject enlightening and extremely helpful. We had yet another fight yesterday, one which I narrowed down t...

Thank you for your comment. I completely agree with you and have never gone with stereotypes, so hopefully after gaining enough courage I can move on from this and find a relatively normal partner!

Thank you for your comment. I have pondered the possibility of her being a psychologically abusive partner especially with her parents being extreme cases of NPD (I have witnessed enough examples o...

Hi again. As posted above she did find pornography in my internet history. There has been one more instance where I was chatting to a female friend on Facebook but decided to delete the messages so...

I guess I hope that she will change. That we can work through our problems and have the fun, loving relationship we had at the start, though I'm starting to wonder if those were true feelings and ...

Thank you for your straightforward and sensible reply.