Adderoll. Seriously. If you are anxious (me too) it mellows you. I notice I listen to others more than needing to be the one talking. It slows me down enough to be more present.

Depends on the life paths taken and how vain you are. For some, forties is where its at. You've worked hard, have money and time to spend it. If you aren't hung up on not having your twenty year ol...

It is intoxicating. Good sex puts those ooey-gooey chemicals into your brain and body, so yes, completely normal to be totally obsessed. Be safe. It's way too easy to lose control of the situation....