I know there are things to throw away. As it will be WHENEVER I decide to have a child whether it be now or 20 years from now. I am afraid. i admit it. There are so many things in life that peopl...

@ illegroAD: I thank you again, for your advice. Let's clear something up though, shall we? I don't 'think' I'm so well equipped to take on this grandest thing any of us can do. I don't think an...

I thank each of you for your advice and wisdom. I've never thought that having a child will 'throw away' anything. I know that there will be times when I won't know what to do. When they're sick ...

@Nejmie: I totally agree. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long while and we've known each other since we were three. We definitely plan on getting married before bringing a child into t...

Thank you. I HAVE thought it through :) I've talked to him about it. He says he's scared but he supports me. But I mean, most people get scared about these things. It's a huge step in life.