I understand your point but when youve been talking for 3 years for 3-4 sometimes 5 or 6 hours a day. You get to know that person. I know things she hasn't told her best friends.

I like your Idea of the "date" night, problem is. i understand she still has a life. I don't mind her kissing other guys because we haven't met and I know that's all that will happen. She's changed...