I don't think this is normal. I think you're distant and despondent. It could be anxiety related, shyness, laziness or phobic. I think if you can afford it you should see a hypnotherapist. In four ...

Screw that crap. Leave him and pull someone fitter, younger and more attractive. This is your exciting new time now. Do it. The future you will be awesome ;-)

I don't think any of us on here should be judging. You're just responding to what's coming natural to you. If he was to make a move, the issue is a) his kids would make your lives a misery as they ...